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Your kind words in the comments meant a lot to me. My SIL had such a beautiful way to talk to my brother when a couple of old friends stopped Saturday night. "J...K and R cane to visit you as you are on your journey." It acknowledged the inevitable but with warmth and care. I guess that is all our lives, and none of us get to decide when it's over. I know I'm struggling on my own journey, and in witnessing the end for people I love. I don't want to be so lost and hopefully in time, my own journey will feel positive again.
April seems to want to end in volatility weather wise. I have two commitments today that I hope aren't thwarted by the weather- severe thunderstorms with potential for tornadoes. We'll watch and plan appropriately. Pup is not a fan so will hunker down and stay close. I've got more on my calendar this week than I've had for awhile, but grateful it's free enough to take a few care shifts. Stay safe if you're in a path.
I really like your SIL's framing. It's an acknowledgement of what's happening, while being very open & not morose. I hope I can handle a similar situation with such grace. I am so happy for you that your retirement schedule & timing has allowed you the opportunity to provide respite care for your family. What a gift you can offer. - Hawaii Planner
ReplyDeleteThat's a nice way for your SIL to phrase it. As we age, we will all get to go on this journey and like you, as I age, I am seeing this more and more.
ReplyDeleteYour sister in law sounds like a wise woman indeed
ReplyDeleteSending love to you all
Siobhan x
I like the phrasing your SIL used. Caregiving is hard, and it's do nice of family to chip in.
ReplyDeleteI have extreme respect for your SIL and her lovely way she has worded announcing his guests.
ReplyDeleteSuch a lovely statement by your SIL. 💕
ReplyDeleteLovely words from SIL.
ReplyDeleteHope the storms weren't too bad.
Caregiving is the HARDEST thing you'll ever be grateful you did. (my parents)
ReplyDeleteDodging violent thunderstorms and tornadoes seems to be a way of life here. I'm glad you schedule allows you to things for your family.
ReplyDeleteI'm keeping you all in my thoughts, Sam. I am so very sorry for the pain and loss your family is experiencing.
ReplyDeleteTamara R / My Retirement Journey
DeleteBeautiful sentiment that your sil expressed ! Cindy in the South
ReplyDeleteYour SIL is a strong blessed woman. So are you. A dear friend died several years ago after a long battle. I heard her husband (while trying to transfer her and it was painful) say I know, it hurts. Don't get angry at the opposing player. Get angry with the game. She laughed. I laughed. I would stay with her each morning whilst he would go out to drink his coffee (it made her nauseous) This memory still makes me smile. I hope someday you and your SIL can smile with less pain in your hearts.
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