Nothing Really This Morning...Going for Routine

      I've nothing to post about really, but trying to get back into a Sunday-Wednesday-Friday routine. It's one of the things I'm doing as part of my overall therapy and mental alertness as I age. Spo's Sunday morning post, Spo Reflections on Being Older Than Usual started me down these aging thoughts this morning. I need to get a good walk, and get my balance, strength, and hip exercises done. I'm doing my ankle flex as I type. Using every opportunity to move seems more important with each year.

     My oldest sibling, my brother as you've read, has been ill, hospitalized since January 18th. Finally, he broke out on Saturday, but alas, just to a care facility. It was decided his daily care needs for a while are too much to put on my SIL, even with help. It's a tough situation as he needs to heal enough to start chemo, but then that starts new challenges. He's in town so much easier for his kids, grandkids, and other family to visit. He can have a regular diet but nothing has tasted good. I've still got birthday treats for him. 

     My son is still not weight steady on his foot from the accident nearly two weeks ago. He was going to shovel but I nixed that. We only ended up with about four inches, it was pleasant out, and I could use the exercise. I did the patio and back stairs first and pup played like he was 3 not 13! He loves the snow. Little Miss watched from the patio door. She loves watching the boys. 

     I moved to the front and made good progress on my own. My neighbor's son pulled into their driveway, grabbed a shovel, and helped me get the choppy heavy end of driveway cleared caused by the plow. An unknown person left a truck parked in the circle just up from my mailbox, so the plow couldn't clear cleanly. Well, they're going to need to dig their truck out a bit, but it also meant my mailbox got plowed in too. I shoveled that out, but left the truck. You'd think anyone in Minnesota would know how plowing works and get their truck moved. Happily, and surprisingly, I'm not sore today. I guess my exercise has been paying off. 

     With everything going on with my brother plus vacation coming and going, Super Bowl plans weren't really made or communicated well. My sister sent a text that anyone without plans should come over. I think I'll stay put getting stuff done around here; the girls ( plus grandpup) are likely coming as they don't have regular TV to watch the game. I've more than enough food should any extras stop by. That's about it for this Sunday. I hope you have a good week. 

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  1. Dealing with aging issues as well. I wasn't expecting to make it past my 50s, given my overarching health issues, and at almost 69 I apparently have to think longer-term. And as you lead off with, routine is part of that. Thanks for the very timely reminder, Sam.

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    1. It is a challenge to live daily as if we'll live a very long life. That balance of spend/enjoy vs having enough to become 95. A Blessing and a conundrum.

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    2. I am glad you have the conundrum! I can't imagine the rollercoaster of going through cancer treatment. You're bright disposition and approach to life has been a positive light I hope I could better follow.

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  2. I must have missed a few posts about your brother and your son, hoping they continue to heal. Glad you’re not sore today, shoveling is definitely a full body workout. I’ll be watching the Super Bowl alone. We used to have such a fun time when the kids were little (and the Steelers were good lol). I am looking forward to the halftime show. JoAnn

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    1. It was a the post after the shit show post... Thursday maybe, about my brother, but son know st mentioned in passing Friday. We had fun watching the game. We do a little family pool- winner and point differential. I won with picking Eagles by 15.

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  3. I don't remember seeing about your brother or son either. Hope both are in the process of healing. Been going through a lot with my older sis.
    Have a good week.

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    1. In a few past posts mentioned both. I hope things go better for your sister and she gets the care she needs.

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  4. A great method to strengthen your post-knee replacement: stand with a hand on your kitchen counter and do deep squats. Start with 20. Every 3rd day squat deeper to increase your motion and quad strength. I was 18 months out from my 2nd knee when I realized I was 100% stable and can do anything since then!

    Prayers for you, your brother and your son.

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  5. Sounds like a fun day for you and your kiddos today. I hope your son's foot heals quickly, and I am glad your brother is close to his family and is receiving the care that he needs. We got over 5cm of snow here in my area, so we just shoveled it all off and I have gotten some fitness in today! :)

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    1. We enjoyed the game. Another set back and he's still not moved to the care facility.

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  6. I remember the days of having to shovel snow and it is hard work! I wish your brother the best. I understand about your SIL not being able to take care of all of his needs as I felt that way with my Mom. It is just too much for one person around the clock.

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    1. It's so many different needs right now too. Caregivers need support.

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  7. I hope your BIL and Son both continue on the road to recovery. Hope today turns out well for you. And routine is good.

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    1. It's my brother who's not well. Thanks for the good thoughts.

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  8. Thank you for the shout-out. We will persevere together.

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  9. Praying for your brother and your SIL right now. It can't be easy for either of them but at least she'll hopefully get some rest too!

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    1. It's been a lot, and more bad pain yesterday. He just can't consistently round a corner.

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