Trying on the Budget Front...

     

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     My low spend week was anything but low spend. Some by choice, picking up dinner twice, and other necessity, kitten vet bill, but regardless money leaked, no, poured out last week. There were so many good comments on the post, like thinking, and different approaches. Now it's my birthday today, Thanksgiving Thursday, and a whole month of more holiday spending cheer (read that with a sarcasm filter.) My older daughter came over yesterday to watch the football game and hang out. We spent time reviewing calendars and figuring out ideas where each of us could save to off set so many of the splurges we both know will happen. 

     My birthday will be low key. Nothing today though maybe I'll see if there's a freebie like a scoop of frozen custard to take advantage of, though will give to my son. I'm doing the SNAP challenge the next three days and we have leftovers that need eating that my son can eat.  Friday my youngest wants to give me an afternoon tea. She looked into the ones offered and nothing in her price point. This will be so much better anyway. I have a three tiered plate holder, table cloths, teapot, and pretty china. My lovely friend Siobhan sent me an incredible gift with tea, biscuits, and coffee for my birthday and it will be enjoyed thoroughly as part of this tea. (I can't wait until next year when I can have tea with Siobhan in the UK.) I'll get a picture of my daughter's spread to share with you all. 

     My line of thought is to not restrict spending when it genuinely brings me some cheer, and save on the everyday. I'll gladly spend $80 on matinee dinner theater tickets with my siblings and their spouses to see White Christmas, and fill my travel mug with coffee made at home when out and about doing holiday shopping instead of grabbing one out. 

     I'll stock up on adult beverages for home and snacks for our own happy hours...and try and forgoe the lure of the local spots. This means more time keeping my house tidy so I feel good having friends or family stop by. I'd also have provisions to bring along to someone else's without a last minute expensive stop on route. I hope the Black Friday sales include alcohol.

     Other little strategies that I should do regularly, but feels more important for the next six weeks. 

  • Stock up on basics at good prices without moving into hoarding categories. This goes beyond groceries and may mean my favorite comfortable shoe, under garments and socks...anything that needs regular replacing. 
  • Big batches of soup 
  • Pasta meals, freezing portion sizes for quick heat and eat
  • Batches of currys, like chickpea masala and dal which pack flavor for not much money
  • Using more legume, bean, and protein rich grain based meals, which we like, but I need to think ahead to prepare. Spicy black beans and rice is a favorite and makes so much. 
  • Top off spices in bulk at Sam's Club, Indian grocery store
  • Bake lots of breads, quick and yeast
  • Walking for top up shops at local store for only loss leaders ( bonus, get extra steps in and some weight bearing exercise carrying bags home)
  • Finding clearance grocery or other items for freezer when I do a bigger shop. While I'm doing the SNAP challenge for three days, I used the tip Belinda shared that the Walmart rotisserie chickens can be bought for $4 next day.I never thought to look, but found them on Saturday. I bought one for my freezer and will make soup, extra broth, and have for a hot dish. Day old breads for the freezer are great for pizza bases, garlic bread, soup accompaniment,etc. but I often don't  think to look when I just run in and out. 
  • Maximizing streaming services- we pay, we need to use
  • Keep heat low, use fireplace to take nip out of the family room, sweaters and blankets to bundle up
  • Review supply of gift cards to off set spending of cash/ credit card purchases
  • Pack snacks for holiday shopping so that if we do a meal out, it's intentionally planned, not because just too hungry to wait
     It's easy to throw those extras in the shopping cart, purchase food and drink on the go, or click on and buy adorable things from the convenience of my phone. I'm trying to make less easy through a little forethought. How are you doing extra diligence with your spending to ensure your fiscally comfortable this holiday season? Has anyone had a hard January so changed your approach to holiday season spending? 

Comments

  1. Happiest of birthdays wishes!
    Oh I love the idea of a special tea with your daughter. It sounds lovely! I have only been to a tea room once, but the scones with clotted cream and jam were delicious. I think your trip to the UK will be awesome next year too.
    And I love your idea to save money on the everyday so you can enjoy those things that bring you cheer. I think the dinner theater with your siblings will be special.
    Wishing you joy this holiday season.

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    1. I don't think she knows what a scone is, let alone clotted cream. I'll be happy with however her tea comes out.

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  2. Happy Birthday! The triple tray is something I want! Tea or coffee are not my cup of. I hope your tea goes over well.

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    1. You're missing out. What would you use a triple tray for? I haven't used mine since hosting my sister's birthday dinner in March. I loan it out 3x more than I use it.

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    2. I don't have to use it every week. If I had one I would use it often. I hate hot tea and coffee, all hot drinks. Every I loan things, I have to beg someone to bring it back or the person loans it to someone else. Or, they break it.

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    3. I think of the tiered tray as a hostess tool for serving more items and reserving space. That's why I was curious. Of course everyone uses their items how they want to use them, not just how I would. In decluttering, it's an item I've thought many times to give away, but then someone in the family ends up needing one for an occasion or another so I've held onto it.

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  3. Happy birthday SAM. Your afternoon tea sounds lovely. After a very spendy year, I've reined things in again. Like you I'm happy to save in some areas so that I can enjoy things in others. I still look for secondhand before new, which has saved a fortune whilst buying things for our February celebration.

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    1. I've had good luck with second hand jeans. They're getting so expensive in stores and I find people don't keep them long so usually a good selection.

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  4. Happy birthday, SAM! Your tea sounds so nice, & love that the components are coming from a blogging friend.

    You have some great options for keeping things in check. I'm looking at discounts & sales for things I'd like to have on hand when we are all together. Sam loves cheese & crackers, so I found a good price on those & stocked up. This is also my reminder to start purchasing snacks for our NY trip, as we will be in a hotel for a few nights & after skiing, the boys + friends will absolutely make their way through a pile of food. If I bring some with us, it will drastically offset the price of hotel snacks. (Hawaii Planner)

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    1. We could never travel without a good supply of hotel room snacks.

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  5. Happy Birthday!

    I quickly discovered that having a protein bar, granola bar or and small bag of nuts was the difference between going through McDs and getting home and making a sandwich. Four years later and I just need a bottle of water.

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    1. A bottle of water with me is a must. Most of the time I'm feeling like I need a snack out and about, I'm really just getting thirsty.

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  6. Happy birthday! An afternoon tea is a wonderful way to celebrate.

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  7. the Happiest of Birthdays to you Sam! Enjoy your special day... 8-))

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  8. I hope your Birthday has been wonderful. Sending you every good wish.
    I love the idea of having things at home for spontaneous entertaining. Since Covid I have been very lax in having folks over. Gotta change that right now.

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    1. My sister's, two them, are the best impromptu hosts. Come over for the game, they'll hail, Or a card game.

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  9. Happy Birthday, Sam! 🥳🥳🥳

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  10. Happy Birthday Sam! I hope it has been a good day for you. I’m glad you found the rotisserie chickens, which are such a great deal.

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    1. I never knew they would sell that way. I just assumed used in the deli or all sold out.

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  11. Happy Birthday! It may not sound frugal…but we are all getting new phones. We switched providers and got a good deal. I desperately needed a new one as mine is so old that it doesn’t update anymore, the rest of the fam has phones 2-3 years old and we figured this was a good time to take advantage of the deal. JoAnn

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    1. I need a new phone too. Group texting doesn't work, the call pick up is horrible. They just make them disposable it seems.

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  12. Happy Birthday! If it was not all you want or need, just keep working on it the next day.

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  13. Food and drink "on the go" can be so expensive can't it. Now when I go off on one of my walks I take a couple of pieces of cake out of the freezer and a flask of tea! I love to bake but obviously can't eat it all so I freeze it in squares. Makes me feel thoroughly virtuous sitting there with my tea and cake (although not as pretty as your birthday tea will be). Happy birthday Sam!

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    1. I had a gift card from my niece for helping out with two days of child care when they had a trip and their care fell through. I was shocked that a medium coffee and a pastry used the entire $10 card.

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  14. Joining in on the shower of birthday hugs and wishes, Sam! Trust me, they are still fresh even a day later!

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  15. Happy Birthday from me too ! Cannot tell you how much I am looking forward to your trip next year - Siobhan x

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