Learning New Things and Revisiting Old

      I'm going to aim for two posts a week. One, may be a mind dump like Wednesday was, and Saturdays perhaps something with a bit of practicality or something I'm learning about. I'm trying that today. My husband and I talked a lot about what we'd like to try in retirement and what we'd like to do more of, or do again. He thought perhaps he'd resume his old ski days, plus maybe have a very part time and seasonal job at one of the ski spots near us. I was never a skier, but I thought that was a great idea for him.

     My daughter was thrifting last night with her roommate and called me to ask about a couple brands. She did some Googling and saw a similar jacket retailed for over $100 in the brand, and while steep at $20, seemed a good find. 

Brand, American Top.

Then she found this dress, similar style retailing for $60+, correction, $100+ and selling for $9. We talked a bit about if she decided not to keep, she'd probably get her money back reselling. 
Brand,  Boden

     Neither of us explored this in any serious fashion in the past, but along with my older daughters good eyes, I think it could be a good mom-daughters bonding. One of my sister-in-laws has good luck reselling on Facebook marketplace, mostly her kids bougie stuff they outgrew, but occasionally she flips finds from thrift stores. I don't know if she's done eBay or Poshmark or similar. 

     That's my short term, three month plan, to learn more. Perhaps not only can we indulge in retail therapy on the cheap, we might earn a bit of fun money. I need to learn how the resale system works, plus quite frankly, I'm ignorant on brands and value. If you don't follow Vintage Vixen or Ephemera, take a look. They are beautiful ladies with an eye for style, their own unique style. I'd love to learn from others so send other vintage/ thrift experts my way. 

     This post is getting quite long, but I also want to invest more time in artisan baking. I've succeeded with the dutch oven rustic loaf, but there's a world of bread out there. I'm adding to my list to learn, homemade naan, pita, and tortillas. Ideas of who to follow, blog, Instagram, or YouTube appreciated. 



                    Now for the old. I went bowling with a 50+ group from church. I almost didn't go, was feeling blah and not sure I wanted to expose myself to couple time. But, the organizer split lanes up by drawing numbers, and I met another woman, a youngish widow who lost her husband four years ago. She's a bit older than me now at 65, but a young 65. I had a very nice night. I'm not a great bowler, but did ok. I  remembered it's a fun activity to do periodically with my family, friends, or new acquaintances. It was so successful they are going to plan again for April. I'll have a good think on other things I used to enjoy that have slipped to the wayside. Have a good Saturday.



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  1. Try Belinda at Frugal Workshop on Sluggy's list. Her daughter resells and Belinda washes clothes and irons them. Well, that is what I remember her saying she did. I think that is a great idea for you and your daughter. I have a box of things ready for resale. Right now, I have no clothing in there.
    Sometimes, going somewhere and doing something when I feel blah turns out better than expected. Maybe having to face couples again is something you need to be able to do. However, I have no experience with being a widow, so i really don't know.

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    1. Believe me, I have to "face" couples all the time, but I don't feel I have to on any particular day or reason.

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  2. Sounds like some good goals. I was going to suggest Belinda as well - at Frugal Workshop for more resale info. I am sure you will figure out something.

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    1. Belinda doesn't blog about her daughters process much as I recall, but I do recall she supports her work

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  3. Sounds like you are exploring some fun options. Everyone near us is obsessed with pickle ball. Is a lesson something that would interest you? Or, perhaps a local yoga class? Writing workshop? Wine + painting class?

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    1. Pickle balls a thing here too. Your other suggestions are good ones to explore.

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  4. Good for you for getting out there again. I guess it won't always be fun but you never know. And you may even love it!

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    1. Yes, I need to just try things, or retry things.

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  5. Must be daunting making efforts to start new things on your own, I know I'd struggle. Your bread looks fantastic, well done. Your daughters are very enterprising, good for them.

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    1. We all have ideas but slow often on execution.

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  6. You write so well Sam - I look forward to reading your posts , and since we are both widowed what you write resonates even more .
    Great ideas about thrifting ( we call if charity shopping in the UK) . My daughter and I used to do this beforeTony died , and I enjoy not knowing what you will find . I live with chronic anxiety , and one of my triggers can be spending money - but not in a charity shop because the spends are low and the purchase itself is for a good cause

    I might just book a ticket and fly over to taste some of your bread - it looks amazing xx

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    1. I'd be happy to supply you bread and soup to dunk it in! I know from Vix you say Charity Shopping.

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  7. I get more compliments on the stuff I get thrifting than the stuff I get other places. I love just going and looking. I saw a Tory Burch top once and regret to this day not buying it. It was hideous but would have resold for bank. What about sour dough? It’s super trendy right now. I like to watch people and hear about their experiences but I don’t have the patience. Bowling sounds fun, it’s on the list for my Mom Friends and I to do. We painted pottery for Galentines and are doing a brand new activity for us this week and I thought of you immediately when it was brought up-Trivia Night! A small group of us went downtown last night and enjoyed the nice weather with a long walk and a quick stop at the casino. Not my favorite place but okay in small doses. I don’t gamble but I will people watch. I have to force myself to do things this time of year and I never regret doing them. I wonder why our brains try to talk us out of doing things that make our bodies and souls happy. JoAnn

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    1. Sour dough sort of scares me. I can see poisoning those that eat it!

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    2. Wait, is sourdough poisoning a thing? I’m off to google!

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  8. Bowling is a nice way of getting out and socializing. good for you!

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    1. My arm felt it the next morning, but it was fun.

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  9. Thank you so much for the shout-out, Sam! <3 I am planning on doing thrift-flipping as I ease into retirement, but more at a local level (thrifting then reselling for credit at consignment stores - no online). I don't want to be the direct seller, and I want to support my local stores.

    The more research you do on clothes you find (or your daughter finds), the more you will learn! I've picked up SO much info in the last 15+ years, just from doing the research. Good luck!

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  10. Bowling IS fun, isn't it? I, of course, need the lane with the rails, bad as I am at it!

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  11. Meg B- I hadn't bowled in ages and we did consider hitting the bumper button to have them pop up in the lane, but we persevered. I had a few gutter balls, but no one cared.

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  12. Shelia - Blogger won't let me reply to your comment. Your friend has great skills. I think my girls and I will have fun with it.

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  13. Thanks for the kind words, Sam! That jacket was a great find, I'd have bought that, too. I'm not really into brands, I buy fabulous looking things that are good quality, if I like them I know someone else will. A few people I know do well with reselling pretty plus-sized women's clothing online, a very buoyant market.
    Your bread looks delicious.
    I'm glad you enjoyed your night bowling. I'm absolutely atrocious at it! xxx

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    1. For themselves, they buy what they like. She just wasn't sure she had a find or not. The thing about being bad at bowling, no one cares if it's not a league.

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  14. Bailey learned the system by watching Youtube channels on the subject, so you can always look there. There is more than enough on the second hand market to go around for anyone who wants to resell. I wish you the best of luck on your 3 month adventure. :)

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  15. Your bread looks absolutely fabulous Sam. Arilx

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    1. Old photo, but they've all turned out delicious.

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