Hibernaculum

       

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     I'm getting in the Hibernaculum band wagon to describe my home and thus my approach to January. Both the sweet Mary on her post and Sue both wrote about it recently. I have been hibernating of sorts. If I don't need to leave my house, other than necessary dog/ exercise walks, I don't. I guess it's full circle from five years ago when staying home was about trying to keep ourselves and other healthy. Today it's both trying to keep me mentally healthy. (Less exposure to cold, flu, and other viruses doesn't hurt either.)

    Space for hibernating leaves room for things I didn't feel justified being able to do in spring, summer, and fall. Binge watching a television show, at a scheduled time, feels appropriate and not lazy. Easy meals that literally just get dumped in the crockpot feel both cozy but also resourceful as it maximizes the veg that's more affordable than others in the winter and less expensive protein options and is energy efficient. 

     Having people over, like my sister for a football game, sister's for bookclub and cards, or the girls for a curry means I'm still  socializing, but without needing to get dressed other than for comfort. Of course I've still got outings; grocery shopping, the library, a couple birthday celebrations, errands and then a visit with my MIL, maybe even church in person but these are stretched apart, and have a lot of  calendar between. 

     I have lovely neighbors, but a pleasant wave or how are you when we shovel at the same time suffices for pleasantries as we both want to get back indoors. Now come spring and then summer, I'll gladly join them for a cold drink or morning cup of coffee, a long chat back from a walk, or grabbing gloves and helping each other pull weeds and get caught up. But that's not January. 

     Yes, I'm not necessarily embracing the month, but allowing my mind and body to be absorbed into it. The months leading to January have flown by and here we are already to the 20th. February is short. I'll be helping traveling relatives with pet care and  a car pool now and then for a grandchild. February is filled with sports I can lean into and then I'm in prep mode for my own vacation. Being like the animals that cozy up in their dens is a good way to January. 

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  1. AprilJanuary 20, 2026 at 7:08 AM

    I am laughing as I read this, Sam. We do not have the SNOW that you have up in St. Paul, but today it is a cozy 4 degrees out, -3 with wind chill. So yes, we have a lot of "wave at the neighbor but get into the house FAST" moments. And walking, which I do almost every single day, is out of the question today. Even if I bundle up, it is too dangerous to be out that long. Stay safe and stay WARM!

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