Home Found
Now a big life update and another explanation for my blog absence. I toured a few homes with my son in mid April. He wanted me with as he's not really lived in Minnesota (before coming back) since he was 19 and he's never owned a home. After a winter of snow, a spring so far of cold, and rain, and employment opportunities that require flexibility, he shifted his search to low maintenance living.
He almost put an offer on a beautiful condo with all his buttons checked just across the main road from my neighborhood. He paused though, realizing he doesn't want to settle down in our town but rather move to one of the twin cities. I'm much less familiar with Minneapolis but aware areas he'd probably like were a tad out of his price point. I know St Paul pretty well so was of more help. We proceeded to tour a few condos in St. Paul. A great two bedroom, two bath, while needing updates, was a top contender. Still, something was missing though location wise. While technically in the city, it was right on the border, so a more suburban feel. He really wanted a walkable urban feel.
This meant compromises would be necessary. He'd have to give up square feet. Getting an actual garage was going to push his budget or crush it completely. A must was to have a designated off street parking space, so on that he wouldn't compromise. Minnesota winters are a nightmare for street parking in urban areas. Studios were also a no go, but he was willing to look at one bedrooms, if the rooms had enough size to fit in a work and work out area, and of course, room for his cats.
The stars aligned and he found a perfect place thanks to someone that relocated. They've been trying to sell since fall, pulled the listing for an unknown reason, then started again in March. We have no idea why it wasn't selling. Perhaps the appearance on Google maps that it's closer to the freeway than it actually is deceived potential buyers from even looking. There's only one parking spot, so a negative to couples possibly, though it's near a major bus line. It's in the "garden level" aka, down a half flight, but windows are plenty, big, and usher in a lot of light, and we toured on a gray rainy day. The rooms are plenty big for his needs. Someone's loss is his gain.
The condo sits in a well cared for, by building owners association members, not a corporate HOA, 1925 brownstone in a desirable neighborhood, just a jump from one of the most popular streets in St Paul. Think coffee houses, bakeries, pubs, diverse restaurants, and unique shopping just footsteps away. In fact, his yoga studio has a location just 1.1 mile west on the same street, which for a healthy active man, that's nothing. It's turn key meticulous with hardwood floors, craftsman features with original woodwork, and a wonderful outdoor communal patio complete with a garden, fire pit, and shared grill, almost like a private park. The inspection went well, though some minor work in the bathroom by a licensed plumber, at sellers expense, was added and accepted to the purchase agreement. The current owner has to make arrangements for the plumber and do a final clear out so date is not finalized for closing, but will be soon.
He may purchase a few pieces from her and she's preparing a price list for things she'd prefer to just sell than move. He needs furniture, as he sold his when he moved from Los Angelos, but is still debating what pieces he'd be interested in, as she's a bit more chic as opposed to comfort in her decorating style, and he'll want a super comfortable couch. Once closing is done, he'll do a slow move in, leaving cats at my house through his busy summer for jobs but also his time at the lake cabins (there's a build project on the small cabin he's going to be managing for the family). He didn't want to pack them up each weekend when he's gone. After labor day, he won't have entire weekends tied up so they can get acclimated to their new home.
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| Kitties will feel at home in no time at all. |
It's going to be his home, but the condo's an investment opportunity. Should he get a permanent job ( he's freelance and gig employed now) and needs to relocate, his sister easily could live there or he could rent to someone else. To be honest, its a sweet space I wouldn't be opposed to live in when I decide to downsize. I couldn't be more excited for him. He's had a pretty hard time the last six years with the television and film industry shut down during early covid, back to back industry strikes, and of course, losing his dad so unexpectedly. It wasn't an ideal situation to move back to Minnesota. I've appreciated the time with him and know he did what made sense, even if getting settled took longer than originally planned. I see bright opportunities ahead as he builds his Minnesota life after its felt like it's been on a pause.

What a great result for both him and you. He sounds a sensible and well organised man who knows what he wants and is/was prepared to wait for the right thing for him. I'm sure he was very glad of your help.
ReplyDeleteWell, thats debatable how organized but he wants and low maintenance lifestyle so he can readily adapt to options. The cats are his only consideration and I'll happily pet sit.
DeleteCongratulations to your son!
ReplyDeleteThank you. Very happy for him.
DeleteFantastic! I know he will be happy in his new place. Our youngest and his wife bought their first home, and one of their criteria was to be able to walk to restaurants, coffee shops and a bar or two.
ReplyDeleteI think it's a way to live that fits creative minds. Now my daughter likes urban, but she needs her decompression space so her little village life ( walkable once she's home) fits her.
DeleteCongratulations to your son! That is wonderful news! Sounds like an ideal spot. It is so hard for younger people today to afford to buy their own home. The relocation angle and opportunity reminds me of what happened when we bought our home. I fell in love with our current neighborhood, but nothing popped up at the right time. Then our realtor called about a new listing. It was listed below our price range, so I feared that something was wrong with the house. We were the first ones to tour it. DH saw my reaction as we got back into the realtor’s car. We didn’t even discuss it-the house was perfect. We made an offer immediately and we are still there 30 years later! It would be great if each of your family members got to use it (including you!)
ReplyDeleteForgot to add that our sellers were relocating out of state and had to be out fast, so home was priced under market value.
DeleteHis career trajectory made getting a mortgage tough, but he can afford carrying costs. Were leveraging some money rather than have it sit for someday.
DeleteThat is great. Congratulations to your son!!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Lori. He's figuring out how to make it his and the cats. They are a package deal.
DeleteGood news!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Kristin. One more will be settled a bit better.
DeleteCongratulations to you and your new first time homeowner. You had me at wood floors!!!
ReplyDelete-Meg B.
It's a very sweet condo- small, but very functional for one or a couple should life ever change. There's plenty of closets inside the unit, but a large storage space for bikes, snowboards etc.
DeleteWow!! Congratulations on a successful search!
ReplyDeleteHe found tbis place and was drawn to the outdoor space. It's like the benefit of having a nice backyard garden, but shared maintenance to keep it beautiful.
DeleteCongratulations to your son! So exciting!
ReplyDeleteThank you. Ill have hime around for much of summer as he slowly moves in after close, but it'll be another change and opportunity for ne to do updates here.
DeleteCongrats to your son. Major life choice!
ReplyDeleteIt's the right choice right now for him.
DeleteReading this was like watching an episode of House Hunters of HGTV. So happy your son found something that sounds ideal for him.
ReplyDeleteThat's a bit what it felt like! Three real contenders, but he made a great choice.
DeleteI think condos sound like a great idea. I love the idea of a smaller footprint, for sure!
ReplyDeleteHe'll have more space than he really uses in my house now. My place is going to feel way too big until I reacclimate.
DeleteThat is fantastic! Congratulations!!! Cindy in the South
ReplyDeleteIt's the right time.
DeleteOh, this is such wonderful news. Congratulations to your son, it sounds like a great place to live.
ReplyDeleteIt sure seems like a fit for him.
DeleteVery exciting news! Congratulations to him! JoAnn
ReplyDeleteGood to hear from you JoAnn. I've seen a but of you on IG. I'm happy for him.
DeleteSo happy for your son! That is super exciting & sounds like such a wonderful place for him to call home. Hope this is the kickoff to many positive & wonderful steps for him. - Hawaii Planner
ReplyDeleteIt'll be a really fresh change for him.
DeleteThat's such great news, I'm so pleased for your son! xxx
ReplyDeleteIm pleased too. It's a good fit for him.
DeleteOh that's wonderful news Sam and I think he's right wanting to live in a walkable neighbourhood. He's a young man who will presumably want a social life, right? Much as I love where I live I'm finding this house too big for me and of course when you've got space you clutter it up, so I'm finally also giving some thought to downsizing. Have to get the bloody place decluttered first though!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm singing your same song on clutter. He'll have all the outdoor maintenance he wants at the cabins or helping me. I see 6-10 years more here, then moving. I guess it'll take that long to really purge.
DeleteHow exciting! Congrats to your son!
ReplyDeleteMy son keeps saying he's going to buy somewhere - he's been saving a lot of money - but he doesn't show any sign of moving lol
My son's issue is he had funds saved, but as self emoyed/ gig type work and relocating, getting a mortgage was an issue. But, staying with a bit longer than originally intended and now buying something with flexibility, he's much better positioned financially as an owner. Your son will find the right time. Has he continually lived with you, or a "move back" like my son? I think I was an easy roommate too. Lol.
DeleteThis is so wonderful for him! He has kept working hard and now he can settle down into his new place. :) lovely news!
ReplyDeleteHe was going to hold off to the end of summer but then options started popping up. It'll be a good move for him.
DeleteHow wonderful to find the perfect spot.
ReplyDeleteGod bless.