Sam Squared

      I've gotten completely sucked into Outlander. Once again, I'm always five years to a decade late watching series like this. I didn't see Game of Thrones until it was completed for five years. Anyway, whenever I watch historical fiction, I go down the side rabbit holes looking for the actual history or the real connections. Now, having a part of my family line that comes from the British Isles, I really get sucked into period pieces set there. I don't believe there's any Scottish blood specifically, Wales was where I've always been led to believe our family came from, but of course I go down rabbit holes on that as well, to see the Scots, the Welsh, and even the Irish, may all have derived from the same indigenous inhabitants, thousands of years ago. I don't know where that leaves the English.       Fueled also by my upcoming trip, my ancestry and possibly seeing from where long past relatives lived is on my mind.y cousin that recently passed was ...

                                          For Friday Fiscal Wellness Check,  I copy the previous week, delete the old and updated as I go along the week as a way even when busy and not in a blogging mindset, I'm accountable to myself.  Here's my recap of Friday, August 8 to Thursday, August 14. I just sort of list things as they come up, then edit before publishing.  Avoiding Spending/ Saving on Needs As July was a huge spend on pantry, freezer, and household needs, I'm only trying to buy needed items to round out stocks and fresh food keeping the spending to $65 for the week. But wow, does fresh food, basic restocks, and must haves like coffee add up quickly.  Opportunities to add Funds/Windfalls  Entered Fetch receipts and MS Rewards  Logged 17.5 contract hours. I'll send an invoice at the end of next week month, then ever two weeks ther...

     Plants just have a mind of their own. I'm not totally given up ever having a vegetable or flower garden, but can declare this year a pretty big bust. I won't say fail because I'm learning a bit so maybe next year can improve. The lessons cost me $12 in seeds and $25 in dirt. Oh, and the $14 for more mature pepper and tomato plants will end up yielding two peppers and probably about 8 useable tomatoes. A tad bit of mixed positive and poor results was the leafy lettuce. One of the planters while it took longer, keeps yielding fresh leaves. The other I think over crowded so not getting the full leaves, but a lot of growth. Between the two, I had enough for a big salad every other week and in between, enough for sandwiches since the end of June.       Here's my stupid garden story. I was getting excited as I started seeing flowering where the butternut squash and pumpkins were planted. I thought I had figured out what was plant and what was weed so di...

     I appreciate the space the last few days. It was an emotionally charged long weekend, though filled with love and support. The memorial open house event for life donor families where we got to see my husband's name on the wall in the healing garden, was done very well and I felt nurtured. My son and younger daughter chose to not do the open house, but visited on their own, at quiet times as it's available 24/7, 365 days a year.       I was glad I shared the invitation with his family, but also made sure to express I had no expectations. I hadn't really heard from anyone if they were coming. His mother, siblings, and members of their families did come, though at different times, overlapping for just part of it, but that was good. It gave both space and togetherness. My brother in law shared some very personal thoughts with my daughter the next day, as he hadn't really thought of what life donorship meant and that his brother was part of it. I think...

                                       I try not to do many of the posts like Wednesdays, but I blog for me and it's my outlet. As for Friday Fiscal Wellness Check,  I copy the previous week, delete the old and updated as I go along the week as a way even when busy and not in a blogging mindset, I'm accountable to myself.  Here's my recap of Friday, August 1 to Thursday, August 7. I just sort of list things as they come up, then edit before publishing.  Avoiding Spending/ Saving on Needs I more saved daughter and friends money by making a taco bar and offering random drinks when they unexpectedly were in town.  I renewed a maturing 4 month CD at the same interest rate.  Found comfortable but dressy sandals 40% off. I have both a wedding and a "work" event that necessitates appropriate summer shoes that I currently do not own. Opportunities to add Funds/W...

      Photo by Nandhu Kumar      For those of you that are new or don't know me yet, here's my story. I lost my husband of 35 years on January 18th, 2023 out of the blue; he was 61 and I was 57. There was no warning heart attack, though perhaps little signs that were not picked up on or if noticed, not acted upon. We were in a good point in our lives with our last child in her final semester of college and the other two managing their own lives. He finally was convinced to set a date for retirement, September 1, planning to give notice three weeks prior on his 62nd birthday. We were getting our hands around finances, intending to live off my income for a couple years until I followed him, getting our daughter launched and insured for another four years if needed. After that night, everything fell apart for a while. The kids battled depression and anxiety and still do to a point. My son having to pause to come home right after his dad died had a big blip on ...